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PUT IT BACK IN 10 DAYS --> <!-- <!-- THIS IS A LINK THAT I REMOVED. PUT IT BACK IN 10 DAYS --> <!-- <a href="http://bluesky40.bravejournal.com" target="_blank"><P align="center"><FONT SIZE="2"><B>My WEB<br>Journal<br>(Blog)</b></FONT></A>--></TD> <TD>      </td> <TD><P align=right><a href="#iammyown"><B>I Am My Own</B></a></TD> </TR> </TABLE><br><br> <hr width="50%" align="Center" size="1"> <P align=center><table width="80%"><tr><td><p style="font-size: 16px;"><B>Well, now, I've been a Lady in one form or another for over 60 years now, so I suppose I am as qualified as anyone to create a page For the Ladies... (:D<br><br> I started out as a Baby Girl, went to Toddlerette, to Tomboy-girl, toTeenager; Working Girl; Young Married; Mother (with all attendant jobs); Housewife (with all attendant jobs); Divorced Mother (meaning Mother-Father-Housekeeper-WageEarner-TaxiDriver-Confidante-Jailkeeper!!); Woman Entrepreneur; DatingWoman (when all the kids were grown); Lover and Friend again (when I found my SoulMate); Internet Geekess and Website Builderess; and Grandmother. And believe me, I have not covered it all!!!! (:D I have not added the woman suffixes to many of these words because of feminism (although I am feminist), but because<u> I am proud to be a woman!!</u> And all of the other titles and responsibilities that go with it. I am not addressing all the men who are compassionate, loving, hard-working,and many of whom now support and raise their families alone, too, because this is not a page for the men. It is for US!!</p></td></tr></table><br><br> <b><p style="font-size: 16px;">I Am Woman.....</p></b> <br><br><IMG SRC="graphics/lineRoses.jpg" WIDTH="450" HEIGHT="12" BORDER="0" ALT="lineRoses.jpg - 2437 Bytes"><br> <p style="font-size: 16px; font-family: Arial; color: #CC0000;"><B><a name="wildandcrazy">Wild and Crazy Women</a><br><br> I read she's climbed the mountain's height, or rode the wild, white-topped waves,<br> soared through the sky on a seated kite or plumbed the unknown depths of caves.<br> She drives the cars at breakneck speed and guides the horses thoroughbred<br> on tracks that always were men's deeds, but now they bow to woman's tread.<br><br> And me?? I've ventured none of these, but I have dared to love another;<br> and I have wandered through the paths unknown and hard to be a mother!<br> So goes the sayings - to each her own; one woman's trash is another's treasure.<br> A wild and crazy woman's life is left for each their own to measure.<br> <font size="3"> © Joyce P. Hale </font></b></p> <br><br><IMG SRC="graphics/lineRoses.jpg" WIDTH="450" HEIGHT="12" BORDER="0" ALT="lineRoses.jpg - 2437 Bytes"> <p align="center" style="font-size: 18px;"> <B><a name="choicemine">The Choice Is Mine</a><br><br> I can weep and whine and pout, cry crocodile tears and moan,<br>about the way you treated me and left me all alone.<br>Or I can call my friends and say - let's go out and dine -<br>or see a movie, take a walk...the final choice is mine.<br><br>If people treat me badly, and some are rude to me,<br>I can answer with the same, or choose to better be.<br>Instead of passing on the frown, I'd choose to show a smile;<br>the choice is mine, so I would opt to go that extra mile.<br><br>If someone else is prettier, or has a better home,<br>or has a lot more money, or heartbreaks have they none -<br>It should not be my task in life to envy someone's way -<br>my choice should be to mind my own, and work an honest day.<br><br>We all have roads that we may choose, some rocky, narrow, steep -<br>some straight and wide and all down-hill - but what we sow, we reap.<br>Now if we plant dissension and inequities condone,<br>our lot will come back as the same - the choice is yours alone.<br> <FONT size="2">© Joyce P. Hale</font></B></p> <P align=center><IMG SRC="graphics/lineRoses.jpg" WIDTH="450" HEIGHT="12" BORDER="0" ALT="lineRoses.jpg - 2437 Bytes"> <P align=center><IMG SRC="graphics/WtrflWVAfrm.jpg" WIDTH="170" HEIGHT="220" BORDER="0" ALT="WtrflWVAfrm.jpg - 13484 Bytes"> <p align="center" style="font-size: 16px; font-family: comic sans MS;"><B><a name="iamwoman">I Am Woman</a>.....<br><br>"I am Woman," yells the crowd -<br>Stand up straight, stand up proud!<br>"Hear me roar!" - the crowd goes wild!<br>Let not complacency beguile.<br>So we march a different tune<br>than those from whom we quit their wombs.<br>How far we've come - fight all the way -<br>how far to go - a step each day.<br>What have we gained? The right of choice<br>in many things; to vote our voice.<br>Many of us choose single life;<br>many choose to be mother and wife.<br>Lots of our choices change around -<br>no longer are we "custom" bound.<br>There are many who aren't "here,"<br>they may not roar, they seldom cheer;<br>but they are with us just the same -<br>It's just that we don't know their names.<br><font size="3">Joyce Petrosky-Hale - © 1997</B></FONT></p><br> <P align=center><IMG SRC="graphics/lineRoses.jpg" WIDTH="450" HEIGHT="12" BORDER="0" ALT="lineRoses.jpg - 2437 Bytes"><br><br> <P align=center><TABLE BORDER="5" BORDERCOLORLIGHT="#CCCCCC" BORDERCOLORDARK="#003300"> <TR> <TD><IMG SRC="graphics/spiderwebMarcs72.jpg" WIDTH="288" HEIGHT="255" BORDER="0" ALT="spiderwebMarcs72.jpg - 66203 Bytes"></TD> </TR> </TABLE> <br> <p align="center" style="font-size: 17px;"><B><a name="iammyown">I Am My Own</a><br><br> I am my own - there's only me;<br>I can be what I want to be.<br>The sky is blue, and clouds are white;<br>sometimes I'm wrong and sometimes right.<br><br>Sunshine is warm and grass is green;<br>I sing a song and dream a dream.<br>The breezes blow, the moon comes out;<br>I wonder sometime what it's all about.<br><br>For skies can darken soon to grey;<br>and Time can steal my dreams away.<br>A cloud can hide the sunshine bright;<br>and friends may disappear from sight.<br><br>As lack of water turns grass brown,<br>so lack of love can get me down.<br>But clouds will always travel on,<br>eventually I'll see the sun.<br><br>Eventually my heart will smile,<br>and I'll be happy for a while.<br>I am my own - but God is there<br>to help me all my burdens share.<br><font size="3">© Joyce P. Hale</font></B></p> <P align=center><IMG SRC="graphics/lineRoses.jpg" WIDTH="450" HEIGHT="12" BORDER="0" ALT="lineRoses.jpg - 2437 Bytes"><br><br><br> <table align="center" border="3" bordercolorlight="#9999FF" bordercolordark="#9900FF"> <tr> <td width="600"><br><p align="center" style="font-size: 16px;"><B>******************Great Sayings***************<br><br> Inside every older person is a younger person - wondering what the hell happened.<br>-Cora Harvey Armstrong ..............................<br><br> Quotations from women about women . . . . . . . The hardest years in life are those between ten and seventy. <br>-Helen Hayes (at 73) ..............................<br><br> I refuse to think of them as chin hairs. I think of them as stray eyebrows. <br>-Janette Barber- ..............................<br><br> Whoever thought up the word "Mammogram"? Every time I hear it, I think I'm supposed to put my breast in an envelope and send it to someone.<br> -Jan King- ...............................<br><br> A few weeks after my surgery, I went out to play catch with my golden retriever. When I bent over to pick up the ball, my prosthesis fell out. The dog snatched it, and I found myself chasing him down the road yelling "Hey, come back here with my breast!" <br>-Linda Ellerbee- ...............................<br><br> Things are going to get a lot worse before they get worse. <br>-Lily Tomlin- ...............................<br><br> You know the hardest thing about having cerebral palsy and being a woman? It's plucking your eyebrows. That's how I originally got pierced ears. <br> -Geri Jewell- ...............................<br><br> A male gynecologist is like an auto mechanic who never owned a car. <br> -Carrie Snow- ...............................<br><br> Laugh and the world laughs with you. Cry and you cry with your girlfriends. <br>-Laurie Kuslansky- ...............................<br><br> My second favorite household chore is ironing. My first being hitting my head on the top bunk bed until I faint. <br>-Erma Bombeck- ...............................<br><br> Old age ain't no place for sissies. <br>-Bette Davis- ...............................<br><br> A man's got to do what a man's got to do. A woman must do what he can't. <br>-Rhonda Hansome- ...............................<br><br> The phrase "working mother" is redundant. <br>-Jane Sellman- ................................<br><br> Every time I close the door on reality it comes in through the windows. <br>-Jennifer Unlimited- ...............................<br><br> Whatever women must do they must do twice as well as men to be thought half as good. Luckily, this is not difficult. <br>-Charlotte Whitton- ...............................<br><br> Thirty-five is when you finally get your head together and your body starts falling apart. <br>-Caryn Leschen- ...............................<br><br> I try to take one day at a time, but sometimes several days attack me at once. <br>-Jennifer Unlimited- ................................<br><br> If you can't be a good example, then you'll just have to be a horrible warning.<br>-Catherine Aird- ................................<br><br> When I was young, I was put in a school for retarded kids for two years before they realized I actually had a hearing loss. And they called ME slow! <br>-Kathy Buckley- ................................<br><br> I'm not offended by all the dumb blonde jokes because I know I'm not dumb . . and I'm also not blonde. <br>-Dolly Parton- ................................<br><br> You see a lot of smart guys with dumb women, but you hardly ever see a smart woman with a dumb guy. <br>- Erica Jong- ................................<br><br> If high heels were so wonderful, men would still be wearing them. <br>-Sue Grafton- ................................<br><br> When women are depressed they either eat or go shopping. Men invade another country. <br>-Elayne Boosler- ................................<br><br> Behind every successful man is a surprised woman. <br>-Maryon Pearson ................................<br><br> In politics, if you want anything said, ask a man - if you want anything done, ask a woman. <br>-Margaret Thatcher- ................................<br><br> I have yet to hear a man ask for advice on how to combine marriage and a career.<br>-Gloria Steinem- ...............................<br><br> I never married, because there was no need. I have three pets at home which answer the same purpose as a husband. I have a dog that growls every morning, a parrot that swears all afternoon, and a cat that comes home late every night.<br>-Marie Corelli- ................................<br><br> If men can run the world, why can't they stop wearing neckties? How intelligent is it to start the day by tying a noose around your neck? <br>-Linda Ellerbee- .................................<br><br> I am a marvelous housekeeper. Every time I leave a man I keep his house.<br> -Zsa Zsa Gabor- .................................<br><br> Nobody can make you feel inferior without your permission. <br>-Eleanor Roosevelt- .................................<br><br> Inside me lives a skinny woman crying to get out, but I can usually shut the bitch up with cookies. <br>- Unknown - .................................<br> </B></p> </td> </tr> </table> <P align=center><IMG SRC="graphics/lineRoses.jpg" WIDTH="450" HEIGHT="12" BORDER="0" ALT="lineRoses.jpg - 2437 Bytes"><br><br> <!-------Begin Daremore code-------> <CENTER> <A href=http://daremore.com/quotes.html target=_TOP> <IMG BORDER="0" SRC="http://daremore.com/quote.gif" WIDTH="441" HEIGHT="92" ALT="Daremore Quotes"></A> </CENTER> <!-------End Daremore code-------> <P align=center><IMG SRC="graphics/lineRoses.jpg" WIDTH="450" HEIGHT="12" BORDER="0" ALT="lineRoses.jpg - 2437 Bytes"><br><br> <P align=center style="font-size: 16px;"><B>Want to visit some woman's sites? Check these out:<BR><BR> <B>*****************************************</B><br><br> <A HREF="http://www.internationalwoman.net/" target="_blank"> <IMG SRC="graphics/IWBan.gif" WIDTH="200" HEIGHT="50" BORDER="0" ALT="IWBan.gif - 5430 Bytes"></A><br><br> <B>*******************************************</B><br><br> <A HREF="http://www.g-s-j.org/dvlinks.htm" target="_blank"><IMG SRC="graphics/ribbonDomesViol.gif" WIDTH="34" HEIGHT="56" BORDER="0"></A> Click the purple ribbon for information<BR> and contact addresses for Domestic Violence<BR><br> <B>********************************************</B><br><br> <B>Interested in learning about alternative healing??<br> Visit <A href="http://www.alternativemedicine.com/" target="_blank"><B>Alternative Healing</B> </A><BR><BR> <B>********************************************</B><br><br> If you know of a site which would be of great interest and/or<br>help to women, <A href="mailto:skyblu40@earthlink.net">e-mail me</A> with the URL, and I will check<br>it out for listing here.<Br><br><IMG SRC="graphics/lineRoses.jpg" WIDTH="450" HEIGHT="12" BORDER="0" ALT="lineRoses.jpg - 2437 Bytes"><br><br> <I><B>Copyright © 1998 through 2008 Joyce Petrosky-Hale.<BR> Poetry and graphics contained on these pages were created by me,<br> or are credited or linked to their creators or are, to the best of my<br> knowledge, public domain property or purchased clipart/images.<br> Please let me know if any of them need credit!<br> Please do NOT copy poetry or graphics from this site without my permission.<BR><BR><A href="mailme:skyblu40@earthlink.net"><IMG SRC="graphics/EmRoses.jpg" WIDTH="75" HEIGHT="50" BORDER="0" ALT="EmRoses.jpg - 1814 Bytes"></A><BR><BR> <B>The middle photo is of a beautiful waterfall along scenic Rt.60 in W.VA. in the<br>autumn of the year. 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